Photo Courtesy of Stephen Talkhouse & Talkhouse Encore
Hamptons season is upon us, and with that comes $30 Round Swamp chicken salad, $100 Ubers to Montauk (to then be rejected at Surf Lodge) and of course, wraparound lines at the famed Stephen Talkhouse.
The “Alexa Silverman” types, you know, the ones with resumes including Riverdale, Wisconsin and Tawanda, love to call themselves Talkhouse “experts.” That’s cute. Let’s be real — there are very few people who know the Amagansett institution like Ruby Honerkamp.
A lifelong East Hampton native, Ruby grew up steeped in dive bar culture. From an early age, she dreamed of building on the legacy of Stephen Talkhouse, her family’s iconic live music venue.
Now serving as founder and CEO, Ruby is the driving force behind the brand’s growth and identity.
Below, she shares her insider’s guide to the Hamptons — one that steers clear of chicken finger platters and Bachelor has-beens.
Tucked away but right in the middle of everything, it’s beautifully designed and the perfect place to relax and unwind, even in high season.
Stylish, serene and steps from the beach. Think wellness meets retro surf vibes.
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My go-to for casual, laid-back and undeniably refreshing seafood. I love their Caesar Salad with Lobster Salad on top — paired, of course, with a Talkhouse Encore Lime Vodka Soda. For dessert, their soft-serve ice cream deserves a standing ovation — it’s my favorite summer treat.
A beloved classic that’s been reimagined. Great for lingering dinners, intimate conversations and dishes that feel both nostalgic and new.
A daytime dream: light, fresh and always buzzing with familiar faces. This is my go-to spot for brunch, an evening cocktail or a refreshing Talkhouse Grapefruit Tequila Soda.
My favorite place to grab a coffee or sweet treat in the morning.
The food is understated and always delicious. It has a really fun and relaxed ambiance.
My family’s beloved dive bar and one of the most iconic music venues out east, known for incredible live shows and an electric and inclusive atmosphere. Come for the music, dance all night with a Talkhouse Encore in hand and leave with stories worth telling.
Technically the North Fork, but worth the drive. It has gorgeous waterfront views and live piano karaoke on Wednesdays. Feels like a fever dream in the best way.
An old-school gem with the best sunset view in Montauk.
A Montauk institution and one of my go-tos for low-key live music.
Feels like the home of your most stylish, well-traveled friend. It’s less about what you buy and more about how you feel when you walk in.
A curated vintage shop that blends 70s, 90s and Y2K pieces with timeless staples.
The ultimate elevated leisurewear boutique.
Fine jewelry with edge, plus vintage finds and beautiful home objects.
Where form meets function in a setting that soothes as much as it strengthens.
A serene studio that blends strength, stillness and soulful movement.
Where art meets nature. A truly stunning place to slow down, wander and let your mind breathe.
A farm stand with quiet charm, Amber Waves has a welcoming energy that makes you want to linger longer.
The ultimate unwind: windows down, music up, that long open road just east of Amagansett where everything softens.
Quiet, local and nothing short of magic. The kind of place where time slows down and the sky puts on a show just for you.